Between contemporary travesties of Ibsen or the Greeks, and the endless "assembled research" efforts of James Graham, Peter Morgan and the like, so much "new" writing for the British stage these days feels horribly impersonal. Sure, not every play can be a Long Day's Journey into Night, "written in tears and blood." But at least some sense of an intimate investment, of lived experience meeting sympathetic imagination in the writing, is the main reason I continue to go to the theatre. I definitely don't go for soaped-up current-events versions of deep, searching dramas, for pseudo-journalism, or - Gawd help us - for plays about John Major.
That current climate makes the arrival of a new play like Danny Lee Wynter's Ilford Boy a relief, a joy, even a shock - and something to be treasured. Wynter's play is gorgeously, unabashedly personal - drawing on the actor/playwright's background in a way that makes direct, intimate contact with the audience.
If you grew up mixed race, working class and gay in the '90s, and discovered theatre at the Donmar Warehouse (ok...hand raised to all those!), then aspects of Ilford Boy will hit especially hard. But, beyond those labels, the play has so much to offer in its portrait of family bonds and breaches, of how cultural discoveries can save, and its celebration of those who help us make them.
Williams' debut play, Black Superhero, was in many ways more ambitious and had similar moments of lacerating honesty but some of its debates around representation felt contrived, and the production's on-stage drama ended up getting a bit eclipsed by speculations about what had happened off-stage.
Ilford Boy feels much more organic - more "modest," maybe, but cutting deeper, too. Watching it, I thought about A Taste of Honey and Beautiful Thing and East is East and Till the Stars Come Down and that whole continuum of British plays that recognise the depths and pains and joys of the so-called "ordinary" lives that the majority of us are living. You might feel the spirit of Glass Menagerie-era Tennessee Williams, smiling down, as well.
Interweaving scenes set in the 80s and 90s, the play is bookended by losses, starting on the day of the funeral of Eileen, matriarch to a clan of three daughters in Essex, and Grandma to the teenage Ted, the Wynter surrogate who's the Ilford Boy of the title. Ted's acting up seems to have various causes: grief, the confusing semi-separation of his parents, and his growing awareness of his sexuality.
While his Dad, though often absent, has some fixed ideas about how a boy should conduct himself, the arrival of his Mum's old friend Patrick - an openly gay West End dancer - presents a different view. When Patrick takes Ted to see a certain production of Company at a certain venue (hey, who says theatres can't self-celebrate a bit!), our Ilford boy's perspective on the world starts opening up.
With its coming-of-age protagonist caught between competing versions of masculinity, you might think of this play as a kind of domestic, queer, very English essentially comic variant on Platoon. For sure, Wynter shows that the home front too can be a warzone: a moment in which a mother-son row turns physical is wincingly painful.
A crucial difference, and strength of the writing, though, is that Ken (well played by Gershwyn Eustache Jnr) and Patrick aren't just representative figures but characters with specific backgrounds and histories - and the play is attentive to those places where their attributes don't just compete but also overlap. (Patrick, though now ailing, hasn't lacked physical strength, and Ken displays some unexpected cultural tastes.)
Patrick is the play's showiest part. The characterisation - he's quipping, quoting, sharp-tongued, stylish, swishy - will probably be critiqued in some quarters as stereotypical, but surely we're all grown up enough to also recognise its essential truth. (As a character of colour, Patrick also gives a twist to the campery that, as discussed here, has been a long-standing part of British popular entertainment.) It helps that Craig Stein is so vibrant and captivating, inhabiting the role with total conviction both in its loud and quiet moments - from his show-stopping end-of-Act 1 turn to his sharp retort to Ted when the boy questions what his mother is good at: "Loving you."
Like Till the Stars Come Down, Ilford Boy is also yet another variant on a Three Sisters play. The trio of siblings here - Ria Zmitrowicz as the conflicted mum, Jodie McNee as the fussy Jackie, hiding her hurt under fuss, interference and dog obsession, and Ann, played by Charlotte Jaconelli with some fetching Gemma Collins attitude - capture all the enduring tensions, insider humour and love of those relationships.
The structure of the play means that Eileen's close bond with Ted is more mentioned than fully felt. But, in flashback scenes and brief ghostly interludes, Lindsey Coulson plays Eileen with a beautiful straightforwardness that makes us feel we've always known this woman, even when her dialogue takes a sitcom swerve ("Don't you fucking swear" etc). I loved Aaron Gill and Cary Crankson as the sisters' contrasting spouses too - Crankson, in particular, works wonders, revealing depths in the apparent dimness of his character, with a scrunched-up face hinting at past pain. And despite an occasionally wavering accent, Leo Whitfield Harris makes a great professional debut as Ted, never sentimentalising the character, always true and reacting in the moment.
Timothy Sheader's production is crystal-clear and focused, managing the shifts in time without fuss, though Peter McKintosh's fairly sparse split-level set and Aideen Malone's lighting could do with a shade more domestic warmth.
Streisand and Sondheim may be among the show's icons but references to shopping in Somerfield, Rosemary Conley, Larry Grayson, Michael Barrymore - "poor Cheryl" indeed! - and many more make it clear that this definitely isn't a play that's begging for an Off Broadway transfer anytime soon. Rather, Ilford Boy revels in its time and place and its Britishness, sparking intimate memories and strong connection. Refreshingly, too, for all the topics it touches, it doesn't feel for a moment like an issues play. Instead its fully invested in its characters, who are recognisably messy, awkward, funny, disappointed, joyful, talented and striving. Wynter views them all with clear-eyed compassion, and lets them take us by surprise, as people do in life. It's a funny, moving and delightful evening.
Ilford Boy is booking at the Donmar Warehouse until 28 November. Further information here.
Further reading:
Review of Kimberly Akimbo (Hampstead Theatre)
Review of As You Like It (RSC)





